{"id":21776,"date":"2023-04-21T22:00:42","date_gmt":"2023-04-22T02:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robynsfrenchnest.com\/?p=21776"},"modified":"2023-04-22T01:47:48","modified_gmt":"2023-04-22T05:47:48","slug":"how-to-plan-a-special-lilly-pulitzer-inspired-13th-birthday-spa-party","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robynsfrenchnest.com\/home\/how-to-plan-a-special-lilly-pulitzer-inspired-13th-birthday-spa-party\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Plan a Special Lilly Pulitzer Inspired 13th Birthday Spa Party"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Looking for ways to celebrate a special 13th birthday girl? We had the best time with this 13th birthday spa party and here’s all our tips! \u00a0Keep reading for all of our sources and everything you need to recreate this fun party!<\/em><\/h4>\n

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I love being a mom and I’m so thankful that I have both daughters and a son. \u00a0One of my girls, however, is the girliest girl and loves all things bright, colorful, and pampering!<\/strong> \u00a0When her big 13th birthday rolled around, we wanted to do something really special that would fit her personality perfectly. \u00a0A 13th birthday spa party was the perfect answer and she counted down the days!<\/p>\n

While this post is very colorful for her Lilly Pulitzer inspired 13th birthday spa party, you could tweak the colors and style to fit the personality of your own special girl that you’re celebrating!<\/strong> \u00a0We had so much fun and decided to share the details with you in case you have a special girl, really of any age, to celebrate!<\/p>\n

Our family agreed that this party was perfect for our daughter but it would be fun for the girls of any age too!<\/p>\n

Who’s ready to take a peek at one of our favorite parties ever? \u00a0Here’s Addy’s 13th birthday spa party!<\/em><\/p>\n

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How do you plan a 13th birthday party for a girl?<\/em><\/h3>\n

We love celebrating all of the birthdays but try to do something a little extra special for our kids’ 13th birthdays. \u00a0After all, you only get to become a teenager once in your life!<\/p>\n

Here are a few tips to help you in the beginning stages of planning a 13th birthday party:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Decide on a guest list.<\/li>\n
  2. Choose a theme based on her interests.<\/li>\n
  3. Pick a location that suites the guest list or adjust the guest list, if necessary, to fit the location.<\/li>\n
  4. Determine the date and time.<\/li>\n
  5. Plan food appropriate for the time of day.<\/li>\n
  6. Look at the location and make a list of areas that can be decorated.<\/li>\n
  7. Pick decor to go with your theme.<\/li>\n
  8. Order the cake ahead of time.<\/li>\n
  9. Arrange arrival and set up at the venue.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Week of the party:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    1. Purchase food.<\/li>\n
    2. Double check guest list and send out reminders.<\/li>\n
    3. Arrange for someone to help take pictures.<\/li>\n
    4. Assemble party favor bags.<\/li>\n
    5. Gather all decor in one place so everything is ready and you’re not scrambling at the last minute.<\/li>\n
    6. Arrange for balloons to be blown up\/picked up\/etc.<\/li>\n
    7. Wrap gifts.<\/li>\n
    8. Do any prep that can be done ahead of time.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Day of the party:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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      1. Load in to venue and set up as early as possible.<\/li>\n
      2. Allow time for pictures of the birthday girl and family (if applicable) before guests arrive.<\/li>\n
      3. Have FUN!!! \u00a0(Planning ahead should make it a lot easier to have fun and enjoy your special birthday girl!)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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        Where to go on a girls 13th birthday party?<\/em><\/h3>\n

        There are so many fun options for a girls 13th birthday party. \u00a0Here are 13 ideas we thought of:<\/p>\n

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        1. Home is always a fun option and what we usually do. \u00a0Host a movie, spa, sleepover, or game night!<\/li>\n
        2. Nice shopping mall<\/li>\n
        3. Roller skating or ice skating rink<\/li>\n
        4. Bowling<\/li>\n
        5. Fancy restaurant for a night on the town<\/li>\n
        6. Boutique spa<\/li>\n
        7. Rent an air b n b for a special sleepover<\/li>\n
        8. Go to a resort hotel with a great pool<\/li>\n
        9. Beach or lake<\/li>\n
        10. Museum featuring interests of the birthday girl<\/li>\n
        11. Pottery or art class<\/li>\n
        12. Picnic at a park<\/li>\n
        13. Rent a limo (this is what we did for our other daughter; it was super fun!)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          How do you make a 13th birthday party fun?<\/i><\/h3>\n

          First of all, I think what is important is that it is fun for the birthday girl! \u00a0Arranging the activities, menu, venue, and guests around her preferences will guarantee that she has a great time!<\/p>\n

          Secondly, keep things simple. \u00a0I am learning that 13-year-old girls just want to talk, laugh, giggle, and talk some more<\/strong>. \u00a0Some easy games and guided activities are great for part of the party. \u00a0However, allow plenty of time for them to “relax and hang out” as my daughter says!<\/p>\n

          Thirdly, make sure that the activities are with all guests in mind. \u00a0It’s a lot more fun if everyone can participate and feel comfortable. \u00a0I have been to parties and events where it was maybe great for a few people and really awkward for others. \u00a0Those tween\/early teen years can be awkward enough, right?! \u00a0Keep things casual and flexible for all involved.<\/p>\n

          Lastly, make sure YOU have enough help.<\/strong> \u00a0Enlist older siblings, friends, or family to help make sure there is enough adult supervision and help with last minute preparations. \u00a0If you can start the party without too much stress on yourself, everyone else will have a better time too! \u00a0Plus, you get the opportunity to have time to make memories with your special girl!<\/p>\n

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          How to host a girls spa party?<\/em><\/h3>\n

          As I said, our Addy loves all things girly, so a spa party is right up her alley. \u00a0You could host a really fun girls spa party at your home<\/strong>. \u00a0However, since we had a small guest list and wanted to make this milestone birthday extra special, we booked a local boutique spa for a few hours.<\/p>\n

          Pro Tip: Check with local small businesses.<\/strong> \u00a0The Rose\u00a0and Rebecca Spa has different packages available for private events and was very reasonable. \u00a0If your local spa doesn’t have packages, see if they would be open to working with you to create one! \u00a0It’s a great business plan for small businesses!<\/i><\/p>\n

          If you are hosting a spa party at home, there are so many fun activities and things you can do.<\/p>\n

          Here are some great activities for hosting a spa party at home:<\/em><\/h3>\n